Monday, March 1, 2010

Sorry for the absence everybody. It's been crazy. we have had to much going on for me to keep up. I'll give you a quick review just for fun, but unfortunately I wont be able to keep this up until life gets back to normal around here. I'm guessing a month or so.
First off the good news. Most of you know that I am pregnant and have been for a while. I'm in my 6th month and enjoying the thought that this is the last pregnancy I'll be putting my body through. I am so excited to report that we will finally be getting the little girl that we have been longing for. YEAH!!!!!!! Everybody is so excited!!!!! The boys were just as excited as we were to find out. So Evelynn (or baby Evie, as we call her now) will be arriving late May. And our whole world will change. Something I just cant wait for. Bring on the pink!!! I'm ready!!!!!
Now for the not so great news. We have had a lot of testing going on for 2 of our children, Jaren and Kelland. I have known for a while that something was there and that I just didn't know how to help them or how to get help for them. So we have been going to a wonderful psychiatrist to help us diagnose my two beautiful kids. The diagnoses came back as Asperger's disorder. A form of Autism. While this information was hard to take in at first, I have found it to be quite useful now. And it's easier for me to understand their brilliant minds and know how to help and get help for them. Kelland will have to repeat kindergarten next year but it will all be in his best interest. And now with getting him the help he needs it's fun to see him blossom into an eager student. He actually says he loves to learn and can't wait to go to school! That's something that I was not expecting! I feel like we can get through this now. I have a good support group here as well. And that's always a great feeling!
Now for the bad news. On our way home from visiting family for New Years we arrived to half of our house flooded. It had gotten so cold here that the pipes froze and then burst. Unfortunately our pipes are in the attic. So ceilings collapsed and walls were damaged. The room that was effected the most was our office. So computer gone! I haven't been able to even check everybody blogs. I have felt so disconnected from the world. It's amazing how much we rely on computers isn't it? And all my scrapbooks and pictures destroyed. So sad!!! Really upset about all that. We had a service called Servpro come out to help us get things cleaned up and and help out with the damaged things to try and save them. They totally dropped the ball. And instead of saving things that could have been saved, like my photo albums,scrapbooks and books, they just left in a room to get moldy and ruined. I was so upset about this because I can't put a price on these things. I felt betrayed. They said they would fix it and they didn't.I could have dried them off myself and saved them. But I trusted them and they let me down. Now I'll never have those things again. Lesson learned here? Do it yourself and tell everybody you know not to use Servpro. Anyway, the last 2 months have been dedicated to rebuilding and renovating the house. It's still not perfect yet but we are close. We decided since we are painting and changing our house a bit that we will get it ready to sell. We need a bigger place now that we are adding to our family. So that presents even more projects. Life just doesn't seem to stop. We are really busy with everything but still feel blessed. And we really appreciate all the prayers that have come our way. Again, sorry for ignoring everyone for so long. And i will try to keep everybody posted here and there from now on. Love you all!! Miss you much!! I'll post soon enough. Wish us luck!!

10 comments:

cally said...

Oh Cherstin!! First of all...I'm glad you're alive. I was wondering. Second...A GIRL! I'm so excited. Third...servpro stinks. But nesting should come in handy with the fix-ups.

I love you.

cally said...

And I forgot fourth...aspergers. Hooray to you for looking into it and figuring that out! I've read a lot about aspergers and it's quite fascinating. Knowledge is power, eh? Especially when it comes to understanding our kids.

You're a special mom.

Nana/Mom said...

Hi there, glad you are back on the blog. Missed the updates. Noted on Servpro, and that REALLY stinks. OK, so you tell me what you want copies of, and I will get it done.

Good news is, there are blessings all around you, and we love you-
XOXOXO Patsi/Mom/Nana

Emily said...

My sweet Cherstin, I have been off the radar (depression style) for a little too long, but starting to come to the other side. Your post, Oh my... you are having a GIRL, my heart just bursts for you. I am sitting here with tears just streaming down my face thinking of you as such the incredible Mother you are and just icredible person you are.
(I told Hannah that Mama Chersty had a baby girl in her belly, she is currently shreiking bloody murder in happy)"I am still her first baby girl, right..." Oh she loves you so much.
As do I.
The way you look at your boys inspires me beyond words.
Wow, I just love you. I am so SO sorry about the house and the pictures, Iknow what treasures those are, I am so sorry. But I know you and you will recreate, rebuild and make it lovely again.
I didnt understand just how much I have missed you until as I am typing this and oh my goodness the tears are flowing. I am so happy for you, my sweet friend. A little girl. Five perfect boys (of COURSE Dons in there!).
I love you. I miss you. And I thank you, for inspiring me.
My love,
Emily

Anonymous said...

Dear Cherstin -
So glad you are able to "blog" again. Have missed
it!
You know we are all happy (your Ohio family)
about the little girl that will be joining us. I like the
name Evelyn - it is good in english and in german!
I am sorry for all the things you lost some are not
replaceable. But on the good side (I know that does
not make the pain go away) you are all together.
Donnie is State Side (for now) the boys are progressing and
you are finally "making" your dream come true!
My best wishes for ALL of you for the future -
keeping hanging in -
Love, Grandma/Oma 0x0x0x

Casey said...

What an emotional blog. I am so sorry about your house. I don't know how I would handle something like that. And the boys, so great to have a direction to go, it will be a long hard road but so worth it. Congrats on the girl. I can't imagine how happy you are. I know you've been waiting a long time. She will be spoiled beyond belief and probably never have a date with 4 brothers and a dad to keep the boys away. Can't wait to see all the pictures you'll take of her and all the pink ruffles you'll put her in.

Taffy said...

So glad you are back! I have been thinking of you guys! Weee- a little girl! Too fun! Good luck with the house and ditto on the comments about the boys. Knowledge is power. So glad you have a new understanding and direction for the boys. Love you guys bunches and can not wait to see pics of the little girl when she arrives.

Emilee said...

I'm so happy you posted finally!!! I miss your posts! I CAN NOT BELIEVE WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR HOUSE! I had no idea at all! I feel so sad for you. On that note, I am so excited taht you are finally getting a girl!

Shari Goodman said...

Congratulations! I am so glad you are getting a little pink thing! So much fun. Sorry to hear about the boys but please know I am hear to answer any questions. There are so many answers out there and so many things to help. I have seen little lives changed when it looked impossible. In the end , they are all blessings and I think they live closer to the spirit than we do. You are such a great mom and will be a blessing to them.

Love you!

Shari

Becca & Joel said...

Congrats on baby Eve! I can't wait to see pix!