Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Happy Anniversary to us!

As long as I could remember it was explained to me what it would be like getting married to my one true love. How we would kneel across from each other with the infinity mirrors behind us symbolizing our eternal marriage and commitment to each other. Me in my beautiful white dress and my "true love" there staring into my eyes as we exchanged our rings and they pronounced us man and wife. And then he would kiss me and my life would be complete. So romantic and exactly what every girl wants for her wedding. Well I can honestly say it was very close to that. The only mishap has now become my favorite part in this fairytale like wedding. After we exchanged rings they told us to seal it with a kiss. And in my overwhelmed, on cloud 9 head of mine, that meant to kiss his ring. So I did and everybody laughed. But that is my favorite part now of our wedding day. For years after if you took your ring off Don, I had to kiss it right when you put it back on. For some odd reason this tradition stopped. So a few years ago when I got you a new ring I engraved it with "sealed with a kiss". So you would never forget of that day and my commitment to you. What I love about our marriage and our relationship is the balance we give to each other. We seem to have opposite personalities. I'm more laid back and you like to be in control. I'm more of the sympathetic, lovey, over indulge type; you are the consistent, disciplinary, grounded type. And the longer we are married, the more we are becoming like the other. Creating a perfect balance. I could not be this "take charge" type of person while your gone without your example. And I have truly seen you soften over the years. Your first encounter with the church was the LDS commercial stating that "Best friends make the best marriages"; and you thinking of me even all those years ago as your best friend, has held true through out our marriage. You were my best friend then and you are even more now. And I love that. The things that make me go head over heals crazy for you are...... Your funny laugh. Nobody in the world can even duplicate it I think and I smile every time I hear it. Your beautiful blue eyes. What a wonderful father you are. The way you take care of us. That your a hard worker. That you never give up even when you really want to. The way you keep growing closer to your Father in Heaven. That you take being a priesthood holder and a good home teacher seriously. That you are a strong leader. I didn't realize how much I found this to be an attractive quality until I started to watch LOST with you. My favorite character on the show is Jack because of the way he leads and takes care of everybody. I can so see you in that position if we were ever deserted on an island. Haha. I seem to like the strong, take charge type and that is sooo you. I know I never told you that because I was a bit embarrassed but I got to tell you that is so hot!! Hee hee! The way you show me you love me. You never hesitate to tell me how pretty I am or how much you love me. And when your gone it's very apparent how much you miss me. The way we still flirt is so much fun and the way you can make me laugh. Thank you for these 11 years of ups and downs, of growth and enlightenment. Thank you for being there for me when I needed it and for pushing me to improve myself. Your my life, my everything. My world is you!! And I'm so glad I accidently hit you, all those years ago, with my flag pole at band rehearsal. Here's to another wonderful 11 years together. I love you Don! Happy Anniversary!!!!

7 comments:

Natalie said...

Awwwww! That is the sweetest... You guys make a great team. I love you both so much! xoxo Happy Anniversary!

daveandlisa said...

That is seriously the cutest thing ever. You guys are both very lucky people.

Megan said...

Matt and I both ahhhhed over the sealed with a kiss. That is such a cute story. Congrats on 11 years. Happy Anniversary. ~ Megan

Anonymous said...

Dearest wife! You left out the best part. Remember the part where you where an hour and a half late? I do...good times. I glad neither of us feel worthy of the other, perhaps that's is what keeps us growing more in love. Like most people, I never knew what I had until I didn't have it anymore. To say you are my best friend is almost an understatement. I mean what do you call the person who occupies your thoughts, changes the way you think about things causes you to re-evaluate the man you are becoming? You truly are everything I never knew I always wanted. I don't know where you end and I begin and you make me want to be a better version of myself. How do you thank someone for sticking with you through your supid decisions and failures. Would you do it all over again? I know I would and couldn't imagine my life without you in it and it makes me so happy when I think back on my life and realize that I've now known you for more than half of it. You inspire me and I love you more than this blog can contain. Thank you for all you do, for the mother you are to our legacy and the companion you are to me. I love you!

Becca & Joel said...

I think I may have just short-circuted my computer with my tears! How sweet that Don (aka-Jack now!)actually looks at the blog, and even comments! Double tear jerker!

tiffany knox said...

you are so good at expressing yourself can I hire you for my anniversary? he is a good one and you're amazing!

Anonymous said...

Cherstin & Donnie,
You two almost break my heart, but also
give me hope for the future with your
love and devotion to each other.
We are hoping and praying that you
will all be together again as soon as possible.
Love, Grandma & Grandpa